i came here because ive been to nokia forum and didnt get much help. i have had my 5530 xpress music phone for 2 weeks. the problem is i tried to send a song i got (nokia music)to my wifes phone but when i clicked on send as a txt message i got a message the file was bigger than 300kb, which i think is very small for messages. so i tried mms and same result. so i tried bluetooth but when she recieved it, it had a circle with a red line through it and wouldnt open.also i tried pairing my phone via bluetooth with 2 other phones and got message cannot connect with other device. does anyone know size limits for messaging(vodafone) and can they be increased. ps: while im here does anyone know if you can get smilies (emotons)for messaging with said phone