I'm adding my songs to the list of songs I want to burn in NERO. Is adding them one at at time frommy files the only way to control the order that they play on the disc?
Unless you have a player that allows you to select the order of play, most players will play in order.
They should be burned in the same order you add them to the list. Weird stuff does happen though so create an image file and then open it with ISOBuster and see if things will be burned in the order you want before actually burning the disk.