want to buy an R4 card for a ds lite but what is the most reputable site to ship to the UK as I've heard some dodgy things about some of them? Also which r4 card is best for ds lite? I'm a complete novice where ds cards are concerned so want to be sure of everything. I also keep reading about firmware and updates and stuff, the ds I'm buying for is not used on the internet so will have the default firmware? so will this even be an issue? is everything else plug and play? also reading about kernel updating whats all this its starting to sound complicated.