nero or dvd problem (not sure)

well my suggestion would be to just get rid of incd i had it an people told me that incd and nero are bad combo check this forum
http://forums.afterdawn.com/thread_view.cfm/214177
and here is one on just various problems
http://forums.afterdawn.com/thread_view.cfm/136289
in general someone...will eventually come along and help i am sure but honestly you will avoid alot of trouble and futuure headaches by just partying ways now