I am sorry to ask about ports but I am not sure what else to do? I had a huge post written, I am gonna say it shorter now. I could use torrents before. I got this message from the Dattebayo anime site, connection was reset by server, or (with firefox) a download window and when I hit ok to download it does not and gives no error, when trying to download the torrent. After numerous tries I got the torrent but when I use one of my torrent clients it shows the many peers and seeds (thousands) but it won't connect to any. I have never recieved incoming connections but have always been able to get 30-90 connections anyway. I messed with McAffee port blocking and Windows firewall to try to do portforwarding and I am not sure if my problem was before this or caused by this. Disabling both have not helped and trying to revert the options to what they were have not helped. I have bit tornado, ABC, and Azureus. Please help, this is very frustrating.