Just venting a little... One of my friends decided she wanted to go for a big trip for her 21st this year, five star luxury hotel, theme parks and all, and expects another friend and I to go too. She has this idea that she'll never get the chance to go on this trip while she's still 'young'. I think she's being selfish, she knows neither myself or the other friend can really afford it. Especially me, I have no job and have other things to save up for this year. Last week I told her I can't go, I just can't afford it, and refused to let her pay for it on the condition I pay her back by the end of the year. My two friends stormed out of my house, slamming my front door without saying goodbye. Since then, the one who's birthday it will be has tried talking to me once but never said sorry or admitted she was being selfish after I told her that's what I thought. The other friend hasn't talked or looked at me since. I can't believe they reacted like that to something I cannot change or do anything about. If this person had thought more about who would be able to go on this trip, they should have changed the destination or at least given everyone more than 4 months notice. I value honesty and truth above all things, and I spoke my mind and said what I was thinking to them and they've given me stupid excuses and my own words back to me, e.g. 'You disappointed me'. What's up with this? I don't believe I've done anything wrong and I don't feel like being the one to initiate conversation with these idiots. Am I right?