ds_dad & amjad12 - you need to remove the advertising links from your signatures. Forum Rules are in mine. edit- amjad12 has left the building for crimes against SPAM so just ds_dad's signature to resolve
If you paid with Paypal it's even better, just log on and reverse the charge! Thanks to ebay and Paypal (owned by ebay) who believe the buyer is always right you can no longer leave negatives if you are a seller, but also Paypal have set up a reverse the charge feature. This has been heavily abused with ppl buying thing on ebay paying via Paypal and reversing the charge after they get the item. This leaves sellers with a lot of headaches trying to get ther item or money back! So do that and then see how quickly the guy will reply to your emails!
Hi creaky, Have removed any reference to any commercial website in my signature. Have PMed you to ask if that is okay.
ds_dad - Nope, those 4 sites blatantly qualify as advertising, they need removing ASAP. What you can do is create your own shoutbox profile (you do this via the 'My Account' page) and keep the links in there, as we don't (yet) moderate shoutboxes in the same way as the forums.